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how to have fun when single

Many single people feel especially bad  while being single. Being single does not mean that you are not allowed to have fun.  If you really want to, you can learn to spend quality time with yourself and have fun at the same time. The following article can help you understand How to have fun when you are single.

  • Think of all the things you always wanted to do.

Pick some of them and find time to include them in your weekly schedule Now that you are single, you will not have to feel guilty over spending less time with your partner. If you always wanted to learn to dance,  maybe it is time start dancing lessons. If you want to lose weight, maybe it is time to visit a nutritionist to give you a healthy diet to follow.  If your bookcase is filled with books that you haven’t gotten the chance to read yet, maybe now is the time to start doing it. If you always wanted to travel to a particular destination, now may be the time to make arrangements. Take advantage of your free time to do things that  you couldn’t do while you were involved, things that brings you joy.

  • Get in touch with friends

While you were romantically involved, perhaps you were not able to spend a lot of time with dear friends. Maybe they didn’t get along with your ex partner, or maybe you felt more comfortable hanging out with other couples. Being single may be a great chance to get in touch with those friends, share feelings and thoughts, clear misunderstandings, and have fun together. This may be your only chance to save relationships that were half destroyed while you were romantically involved. It certainly won’t hurt to try,  even if the results are not satisfying enough.

  • Write down all the reasons why you like yourself

If while you were involved, you felt that you had stopped liking yourself, and that you were pretending to be someone else,  in order to please your ex,  maybe now is the time to reconsider. Being single offers you the opportunity  to rediscover yourself and remember all the traits you really like about yourself. Writing them down on post it notes and putting them in visible places will be a great boost to your self-confidence and self-esteem on a daily basis, filling your heart with joy.

Having fun while you are single is an attainable goal. Being single allows you to learn to love yourself without being dependent on a partner, and this is an opportunity you should definitely take advantage of.

So,,, have fun with your single.

good luck